How can I be a feminist and still enjoy this? He hits me during sex and chokes me, and I actually like it. To my surprise, I have found I like to be dominated. We have been having sex for three weeks now and it gets physical. The question: I consider myself quite the feminist – I really think gender equality is very important, but sex with my new boyfriend has me questioning my feminist ways. Have a question? Fire away: (All questions will be published anonymously.) Welcome to Sex Qs, a weekly column where The Globe's Amberly McAteer seeks answers to your sex questions, talking to sexperts and regular Canadians alike.